A person who is happy and satisfied with themselves would never bully another person. No. Itâs been proven in scientifically controlled studies time and again, for both men and women. The fact that you told me I’m not pretty enough to commit to shows how weak and childish you are. Do you want envy from other women? I am not beautiful …nd this is true….because every girl in my city is ….such a beauty …they have something perfect in them….but I have nothing to be called perfect ….I am fat ….dark skin ….greessy hair …lips like hell….I click photos ..but they are always same nd ugly …I don’t know why …but seriously I am ulgy than anything …..my friend is also fat ..but her hairs …nd her face is dam beautiful ….when she. It’s about accepting our own selves to acknoledge our own beauty. "I won't go to the cinema to watch my own film, I'll watch it before. You cannot face yourself in the mirror, forget about facing the world. Greta Thunburg doesn’t care she is not pretty in the classic sense, I wish I had been more like her. I’ve heard MULTIPLE times how ugly I look, but you know what? And believe it or not, people can also sense that. I care about how I feel. Currently i m dating my bestfriend who loves me so much and he is so caring but despite of this he never finds me beautiful neither he ever compliment. Hi Elena, I completely understand where youÂ´re coming from. Man kind are sheep, we find it very hard to think for ourselves, we get lazy and want other people to do the thinking for us and that is how we fall into the trap, especially the “beauty” trap. Anya Taylor-Joy has confessed she doesn't think she's "beautiful enough to be in films". What a great artical. “It’s sad because I’ve really worked hard to be here. It doesnât matter what you look like, what youâre wearing or the size of your breasts. Yes! I’m enough me. I hate to generalize. I’m also pretty damned sure that you have your priorities mixed up. Then again, what is beauty? I am so happy to hear that my article made you feel better. I know that I am not pretty enough to become some beauty contest (not that I cared). So the world ends up having darker-color- skin women using bleaching products to make themselves whiter, but white women end up spending hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars in tanning lotions and sun-beds to get their skin color darker. It’s not important, people make it seem like it’s important, but it actually isn’t, it matters how you feel. 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I lie about twice a week, trying to stay home from school because I feel hideous. I would suggest that you take another look at the mirrow, and forget what the media has told you about beauty. But, I wasn’t always overweight. I never received a comment that IAM beautiful except from loving and caring brother and my friends . The only one that needs to approve and accept yourself is not the external world, but yourself. If heÂ´s too much into physical looks, is that really the kind of guy you want to be dating? <3 ð. For both careers, you could totally make it. Seems like A guy wants asuper skinny girl. Now, at 32 I have a wonderful man who loves me for me, and not because of how I look. It sounds pathetic and my boyfriend is warning me that people will think I’m an absolute whore for saying these things, but I just think I sound weird. Thank u for giving me a new hope. I donât care what the world labels me. The worst part is when we allow ourselves to become victims of victims. Do not allow their behavior and actions to keep having power of your wellbeing. I used to have a very low self-esteem. Your article is beautiul, I cannot express how much this article means to me. Required fields are marked *. You will get to a point where you enjoy going nowhere. But it’s just so hard to accept and move on, you know. Its my devastating perception of life, Im sorry for my awful english but i tried my best to express what i feel. Youâre not ugly. So you can be viewed as an object of desire. "I have never and I don't think I will ever think of myself as beautiful," the 24-year-old confessed, according to The Sun. It hurts and no matter how much you love yourself it doesnt matter if the man you love is always seeing the beauty of others. I decided about 3 years ago to stop coloring my hair, because it really was futile. I’ve experienced walking into a room and knowing I’m turning heads…of both men and women. i think nobody loves me and this is beacuse of my face ð. 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